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Ending A Relationship To-Do-List & Teaching

The rewards are great for those of us who become open to developing loving compassion for our former partners.  The gifts of doing the work are gaining a deep self-love, closure, growth and the ability to attract a future healthy and loving relationship. Here’s a To-Do-List I developed while going through my own ending: Be kind with yourself and your mate (even if …

A Kent-mas Tree Story

A Kent-mas Tree Story

I’m living proof that we each touch one another in ways that cannot be imagined at the time of our first meeting. For me, what started out as meeting with a client morphed into a cherished friendship and a very special Christmas gift this year. The client who morphed into a-butterfly-of-a-dear-friend is Betsy. Betsy’s son, Kent, died tragically a couple of years ago. It’s …

Musings After Divorce

Musings On What I Learned From An Ex

Honesty is the foundation of a relationship You can love someone even when they are being an ass You can want to be with someone even if you know that it is not in your best interests Someone can say they love you and still lie, cheat and steal You are responsible for how you respond to crappy behavior Even when …

EAGLE soaring

Steps To Become Your Own “Wind Beneath Your Wings”

This is an exercise I’ve used and found to be a powerful tool when trying to summon the courage to face my fears and “Soar Like An Eagle” when I’m feeling “Fearful Of The Flight.” It has proven very effective for many other people as well. I personally know of a very successful male speaker who uses this exercise regularly to soothe …

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Psychic Messages For A Skeptic

When a skeptic calls me for a psychic reading, I really discourage them from booking. I’ve realized that a good reading is somewhat of a collaboration between psychic and client in that it’s nice to receive validation from the client that the messages I’m receiving for them are clear and sound like I’m describing their life, etc. Otherwise, it’s somewhat of …

Does This Photo Tell You A Story?

What Do You See ?

Does looking at this photo kickstart your brain into forming a story or opinion of this woman? Such as: Is she friendly, kind, loving, beautiful, rich?  Is she single or married? Is she from your country or another? Is she someone you would like to have as a friend? Does she like the same things you like and could she be …

Divorce YOURSELF, Really

Divorce YOURSELF, Really???

Have you ever known someone who was repeatedly on the verge of filing for a divorce over the course of a very long time, years even? Then, after finally getting the divorce, they find themselves “FALLING APART” and having major REGRETS!!! Before the divorce, my friend seemed confident and self-assured that a divorce was the only thing keeping her from …

MIRACLES

MIRACLES

The other day, someone asked me: “How do miracles happen”? Yikes, I thought, what is this? Is it time to play, “Stump the Psychic”??? Sometimes, I “feel” (through no fault other than my own) as though I should have the answers to every question on anything to do with spirituality. Of course, I don’t. But I find myself expecting to …