Plenty of Fish in the Sea

When it comes to dating, I think a lot of you will agree that women seem more hesitant than men to adopt an attitude of there’s plenty of fish-in-the-sea! Men seem to more readily accept when “she’s-just-not-that-into-me”! Guys go have a beer with friends and get on with life–generally speaking. We women need to question (sometimes ad nauseum) why he’s …

PASSION+PURPOSE = Life Currency

“Life currency is when your life has a flow that allows you to grow while others benefit from your existence” beeherz What is it that you REALLY enjoy doing? Is it Art, Helping People, Numbers, Medicine, Working Alone, Working With People? You get the idea. Now, sit down and write a list of what you enjoy doing. THEN, make another …

Happy Valentine’s Day!

For those of us who may not have a special valentine to lavish us with cards, flowers, dinner and smooching, what are we to do??? There’s plenty we can do for ourselves and the most important is “SELF LOVE.” Actually, the experts tell us that without self love we really cannot fully love another. So let’s start with taking care …

Commitment Phobia!?

  Some of us are just SCARED! The reasons for being SCARED vary from fear of loss of identity to fear of responsibility. QUESTION and ANSWER: Why do I keep choosing men who are commitment phobic? ANSWER: Very interesting question! There are many and various reasons that women choose men who aren’t going to make a commitment. Reasons include: 1. …