Happy Valentine’s Day!

For those of us who may not have a special valentine to lavish us with cards, flowers, dinner and smooching, what are we to do??? There’s plenty we can do for ourselves and the most important is “SELF LOVE.” Actually, the experts tell us that without self love we really cannot fully love another. So let’s start with taking care …

Commitment Phobia!?

  Some of us are just SCARED! The reasons for being SCARED vary from fear of loss of identity to fear of responsibility. QUESTION and ANSWER: Why do I keep choosing men who are commitment phobic? ANSWER: Very interesting question! There are many and various reasons that women choose men who aren’t going to make a commitment. Reasons include: 1. …

How to Choose the Right Psychic or Medium for You

  Of course, referral from someone you are close to or word-of-mouth is always the very best way to find the best psychic or medium for you. But, there are other ways. In particular, “before scheduling” a reading, you should always ask where you might be able to read testimonials and referrals about the psychic medium. That way, you have …

When a friendship changes

Thoughts on Outgrowing Friends   If you’re like I am, you may struggle with the term “outgrowing a friend.” It sounds arrogant to me. I’m not “better” than my friends, so how could I “outgrow” one of them? Makes me feel a lot of guilt, regret, loss and sadness. I don’t know if “outgrowing a friend” is really the most …

Love of Leaves

Love of Leaves!   What is it about walking on a trail with a special someone that makes us Fall even deeper into love this time of year? The smells, colors of the season, the “I need hot cider” moment, crackling fire or is it the brief-leafness-of-the-moment? I think they all contribute to form a deep yearning inside that wants …

What Autumn Gives Us!!!

What Fall Gives Us!   All our “doing” was in summer and now we crave to slumber!     At nearly 7000 ft. here in the Colorado Mountains, the days are growing shorter and sweaters are required. I walk the bike path and see many very furry, golden caterpillars undulating away from me to seek shelter–will the snow be deep? …

Oceans, Lakes and Streams

Although the statistics vary, we are made up of approximately 65% water and this, of course, includes our brains where our emotions and personalities reside. Keeping this in mind, different bodies of water denote characteristics of our personalities and needs and below are some of the traits associated with our longing to be near three of these bodies of water. …

When Our Relationships End!!!

    What is it about the end of a relationship that can make us so horribly miserable? I’m talking about the end of a marriage or long-term dating partnership. Those endings that have kept us up for many nights asking: “Why, What, How”? “Is there someone else he or she is interested in”?         “WHO IS IT”? …

White Picket Fences!

I love this happy photo with the “perfect-white-picket-fence” and gorgeous flowers. I can smell those roses; and, the whole setting just makes me want to walk through the gate and stay in what looks like heaven-on-earth!!! Do you remember Samantha Stevens, the lovable good-witch character from the old “BEWITCHED” TV show series?  Samantha used to simply wiggle her nose to …

Relieving Stress

So, we all suffer from stress at times. Watch this video to see what I do to ground myself in nature to relieve stress.