When it comes to dating, I think a lot of you will agree that women seem more hesitant than men to adopt an attitude of there’s plenty of fish-in-the-sea! Men seem to more readily accept when “she’s-just-not-that-into-me”! Guys go have a beer with friends and get on with life–generally speaking. We women need to question (sometimes ad nauseum) why he’s not calling us for more dates.
Please, it’s important to understand that I’m talking about “dating” not ending a long-time relationship.
In reality, both men and women really need to understand that there is more than just this person (I-am-currently-on-a-date-with) out there who is right for you. All of us need to TRUST and KNOW that it’s far better to let go and move on. If it’s meant to be, it will be; and, it will happen freely and naturally.
It is actually healthier to date more than one person because in the process of dating you’ll learn much about yourself and your wants and desires. In dating more, you’ll:
- 1. Be better able to understand what traits you find in a mate that are acceptable and/or unacceptable.
- 2. Gain additional self-confidence and this will allow you to make better use of your intuition when deciding who to go out with on a date.
- 3. Grow as a person and find out things about yourself that will help your development in all relationships, personal, family, business, friendships, etc.
So, remember, before you find the right one, sometimes you have to allow yourself to “catch and release!”